HELLO THERE PEOPLE ☻
So I’m here to talk to you people about… *insert drumroll here* LOYALTY!! Actually more like a rant so, bare with me if you will.
loyalty. Does anyone even know what that word means these days? 11-year-old kids today has boyfriends/girlfriends and say that they’re “in love” when the truth is, they only think that they are. For me, loyalty is being faithful. Completely faithful. It’s when that no matter how tough the situation may be, you’re still there, persistent and determined to constantly wait and help the situation get better. They say that a friendship that has lasted more than 8 years will last forever. I don’t know if that’s true but I don’t know what to believe these days.
When I was in elementary, almost every year I had a new set of friends. I am still friends with them today but anyone can tell that it isn’t like before anymore. One of them even turned their back at me completely and started spreading nasty rumors about me. Which left me with no one to trust. I knew what was happening since the day it started, but I didn’t bother to do anything about it since it was their choice to believe in lies. But this incident lead me to my real friends. I became close with 3 people in my class and up until now we are so tight and together. I don’t really care what other people thinks of me, honestly, but I care for what other people thinks of my family, and friends.
mess with me, I don’t care, but mess with the ones I care about, you’re gonna get it.
My friends were the ones with me when no one else would bother look at me, they believed that those stupid rumors were not true and helped me go through it by making me feel loved even when there were only 3 of them out of hundreds that truly did. We stood by each other even if we knew that the consequences of this was bad, but we did it anyways so the other wont suffer alone.
Sacrifice. One thing I thank God for.
trust. Most relationships (whether if it’s friendships, or mutual understanding, or family wise) would require trust for this is the foundation the holds their relationship together. Without trust, that “relationship” is useless– if you could even call it a relationship,
I say, choose the people you trust and the people you be with. You can’t trust just anyone because one thing I’ve learned is that sometimes when you tell your biggest secret to one person, they never always keep it to themselves after a few years. The people around you can influence you. You just gotta choose the right ones to make you a better person.
Some things you might think is the worst thing ever, truly isn’t. God could bless you and turn a bad situation into one that is wonderful.
Everything happens for a reason.
I believed that my old friend did all those things because God was trying to say that she wasn’t the right one to be with. It took months for the rumors to start settling down but it didn’t bother me, one thing is because I met my new and true friends through this incident. A good thing can always come out of any bad situation, it’s just up to you whether or not you want to see it.